Four MegaVakkyas that transformed my perspective: Lessons from Dr. S. Jaishankar

Every now and then, I stumble across a quote or idea that sticks with me for days. These are moments in life when a single statement can shift your perspective and inspire deep self-reflection. In recent times, I found myself thinking about some of the bold statements made by Dr. S. Jaishankar, India’s Foreign Minister. Even though he’s talking about world affairs, I couldn’t help but see how his words could apply to my own life.

From the many profound statements, I choose four “MegaVakkyas” – profound statements. Though rooted in international relations, I found that each one held a mirror to my own life, offering lessons that could elevate not just in professional journey, but personal happiness as well. Here’s how each of these “MegaVakkyas” got me thinking—and potentially changing my perspective.

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1. "Europe has to grow out of the mindset that Europe's problems are the world's problems, but the world's problems are not Europe's problems."

Meaning:
Dr. Jaishankar’s words call out the double standards that sometimes exist in global affairs. He reminds us that solidarity must be mutual—if you expect others to care about your challenges, you must also care about theirs.

Empowering Thought:
At first, this sounded like pure geopolitics. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized I’ve sometimes expected others to drop everything for my problems, even when I haven’t always been as attentive to theirs. I realized that in my relationships—whether at work or at home—I can’t expect support and empathy if I’m not willing to offer the same. True connection is a two-way street. It made me think about a relationship and how much I value the ones where support goes both ways. For me, this became a lesson in reciprocity. I started making a conscious effort to check in on people, not just when I needed something, but because I genuinely cared. It’s funny how much closer I’ve grown to people just by being there for them, too.

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2. "The era of uninterrupted dialogue is over. Actions have consequences."

Meaning:
This statement is about setting boundaries and holding others accountable. Dr. Jaishankar makes it clear that endless engagement is not sustainable in the face of repeated hostility.

Empowering Thought:
This one hit home in a different way. I’ve definitely been guilty of giving endless chances—to people, to projects, in shares, to situations that just weren’t working. Often found myself stuck in cycles where I kept giving chances to people or situations that drained me. Reading this, I realized it’s okay to draw a line. I don’t have to keep engaging with things (or people) that leave me frustrated or drained. Setting boundaries felt awkward at first, but it’s honestly been freeing. I have more energy for the things—and the people—that matter. I learned that it’s okay to walk away from relationships or commitments that no longer serve me, and that my well-being matters. By valuing my time and energy, I created space for more meaningful connections and opportunities—both professionally and personally.

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3. "We are not part of any club that excludes others."

Meaning:
Here, Dr. Jaishankar emphasizes inclusivity and the importance of not building walls that shut others out.

Empowering Thought:
This made me think about the groups I’ve been a part of, both at work and outside. I’ve never liked the feeling of being left out, but I hadn’t really considered whether I was unintentionally doing the same to others. Was I unconsciously excluding others? Was I seeking validation by being “in” with certain people? Since then, I’ve tried to be more open and welcoming, inviting new people into conversations or projects. It’s made my world a bit bigger and a lot more interesting. By embracing diversity and making others feel included, I not only enriched my own experience but also contributed to a more positive environment at work and in my social life.

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4. "History is not a spectator sport."

Meaning:
A bold reminder that we must actively participate in shaping our destiny, rather than passively watching events unfold.

Empowering Thought:
This one really got me. I’ve spent a lot of time waiting—waiting for the right opportunity, the right moment, someone else to take the lead. But life isn’t something you can just watch from the sidelines. I started saying yes to more things, speaking up more often, and taking a few risks. Not everything has worked out perfectly, but I feel more in control and, honestly, more alive. I started taking ownership of my choices, setting goals, and pursuing them with intention. The more proactive I became, the more empowered and fulfilled I felt. I realized that happiness and success are not accidental—they are created by those who dare to participate.

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How These Lessons Elevate My Life

I didn’t expect to get so much out of a handful of diplomatic soundbites, but these four  MegaVakkyas really did nudge me out of my comfort zone. I’m not saying I’ve got it all figured out, but I do feel like I’m moving in the right direction—more connected, more assertive, and a lot more open to the world around me. And that feels pretty good, both at work and at home. They’ve helped me build stronger relationships, set healthier boundaries, foster inclusivity, and become an active participant in my own life story. Professionally, I’ve become a better team player and leader. Personally, I feel more connected, confident, and content.

If you’re looking for a way to grow and find greater happiness, I invite you to reflect on these  MegaVakkyas. Let them guide you toward a life of empathy, empowerment, inclusivity, and purposeful action. The world—and your own journey—will be richer for it.